I received an email from a friend the other day, and I’m going to call my friend Asia, to respect her privacy. Asia has been dating this man for almost two years. When she meet her boyfriend he was separated from his estranged wife, who was also dating someone else. Now, almost two years later the ex-wife and her boyfriend breaks up, and now the ex-wife wants to make her marriage work. Asia is now dating a man who is still technically married, and now his wife is trying to make things work with estranged husband. This woman is now blaming Asia for being the girlfriend of her ex-husband. The wife believes Asia should end the relationship and give her a chance to reconcile with her estranged husband.
Now, I told Asia that it wasn’t up to her to make that decision. Its up to her boyfriend to make that decision. Also if he decided to stay with her, he should #1, get that divorce going like yesterday. Two, let his estrange wife known she can’t disrespect Asia. Just because the wife train crashed and burned, doesn’t mean for her to come on her ex-husband train, and start a fire. I also think this man should have been filed for divorce, but I guess getting a divorce is kind of expensive. I don’t know I’ve never been married or divorced. Have you?
What would you tell Asia? What do you guys think? Have a drink and let me know. Don’t forget to check out more of Cocktails and Conversation.
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